{"id":24806,"date":"2023-11-05T00:14:51","date_gmt":"2023-11-04T23:14:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/?page_id=24806"},"modified":"2023-11-08T21:10:24","modified_gmt":"2023-11-08T20:10:24","slug":"attachment","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/ir\/attachement\/attachment\/","title":{"rendered":"About Attachment Theory"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<p>I wrote a whole article in 2016 about attachment theory : <a href=\"http:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/2016\/11\/21-jours-pour-des-relations-positives-17-attachement\/\">SUR L&rsquo;ATTACHEMENT<\/a>. Maybe Google translate can help you translate it?<\/p>\n<p>Here, a nice and short animated video.<\/p>\n\t<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"The Attachment Theory: How Childhood Affects Life\" width=\"678\" height=\"381\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/WjOowWxOXCg?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n\t<p>To start with something short and easy to read, I suggest a series of articles written by Jenev Caddell on verywell.com, starting with than one : <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywell.com\/qualities-of-healthy-relationships-2337785\">3 Key Factors in Healthy Relationships<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I&rsquo;m a great fan of Sue Johnson&rsquo;s books and Emotional Focused Therapy (EFT) work. I&rsquo;ve discovered attachment theory first through her book <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3SDSddn\"><em>HOLD ME TIGHT <\/em><\/a>and it completely changed my view of relationships, including mine. I was proud to later hear Clementine Morrigan then Jessica Fern in POLYSECURE also mention this book.<\/p>\n<figure><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.fr\/Hold-Me-Tight-Successful-Relationships\/dp\/0749955481\/ref=as_li_ss_il?s=english-books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1502909715&amp;sr=1-2&amp;keywords=sue+johnson&amp;linkCode=li3&amp;tag=luci0f-21&amp;linkId=ae59d9b2076bc48167da611301909cdb\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ws-eu.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?_encoding=UTF8&amp;ASIN=0749955481&amp;Format=_SL250_&amp;ID=AsinImage&amp;MarketPlace=FR&amp;ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;WS=1&amp;tag=luci0f-21\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\nSue Johnson then wrote\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2wQVtFU\"><em>LOVE SENSE<\/em><\/a>, that I find remarkably interesting as well.<em><br \/>\n<\/em>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ws-eu.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?_encoding=UTF8&amp;ASIN=0316133760&amp;Format=_SL250_&amp;ID=AsinImage&amp;MarketPlace=FR&amp;ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;WS=1&amp;tag=luci0f-21\" alt=\"\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>To go deeper into the theme of attachment,\u00a0\u00a0<em>the\u00a0<\/em>book of reference for me is Jessica Fern&rsquo;s\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3DDk6sN\"><em>POLYSECURE<\/em><\/a>, which you might find interesting even if you&rsquo;re not into poly relationships.<\/p>\n<figure><a href=\"http:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/41dZrbZCqTL._AC_UL320_.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/41dZrbZCqTL._AC_UL320_-197x300.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 197px) 100vw, 197px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/41dZrbZCqTL._AC_UL320_-197x300.jpg 197w, https:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/41dZrbZCqTL._AC_UL320_.jpg 210w\" alt=\"\" width=\"197\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<em><br \/>\n<\/em><br \/>\nI can also recommend several books in which I found insightful inspiration:\n<ul>\n<li><em><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3U9vUKn\">WIRED FOR LOVE<\/a><\/em>, by Stan Tatkin<\/li>\n<li><em><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2wg8cnF\">LOVE ME, DON&rsquo;T LEAVE ME<\/a><\/em>, by Michelle Skeen;<\/li>\n<li><i><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/40sR2iI\">ATTACHED<\/a>,<\/i>\u00a0by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller;<\/li>\n<li><em><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2x4ZllF\">INSECURE IN LOVE<\/a><\/em>, by Leslie Becker-Phelps.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Wired-For-Love-1.jpg\" alt=\"Wired For Love\" itemprop=\"image\" title=\"Wired For Love\" onerror=\"this.style.display='none'\"  \/>\n\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Love-Me-Dont-Leave-Me.jpg\" alt=\"Love Me Don't Leave Me\" itemprop=\"image\" title=\"Love Me Don't Leave Me\" onerror=\"this.style.display='none'\"  \/>\n\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Attached.jpg\" alt=\"Attached\" itemprop=\"image\" title=\"Attached\" onerror=\"this.style.display='none'\"  \/>\n\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Insecure-in-Love.jpg\" alt=\"Insecure in Love\" itemprop=\"image\" title=\"Insecure in Love\" onerror=\"this.style.display='none'\"  \/>\n\t<p>About\u00a0<em>ATTACHED<\/em>, I invite you to watch this extremely well-done and clear short video:<\/p>\n\t<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Attached - The Science of Attachment - Anxious and Avoidant Loving\" width=\"678\" height=\"381\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/-47gAh9S-Fw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I wrote a whole article in 2016 about attachment theory : SUR L&rsquo;ATTACHEMENT. Maybe Google translate can help you translate it? Here, a nice and short animated video. To start with something short and easy to read, I suggest a series of articles written by Jenev Caddell on verywell.com, starting with than one : 3 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":24670,"menu_order":1,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-24806","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/24806","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24806"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/24806\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24915,"href":"https:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/24806\/revisions\/24915"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/24670"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lutineetcie.com\/isabellebroue\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24806"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}